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S3:E3 | From Afraid to Assertive: Abby
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S3:E3 | From Afraid to Assertive: Abby

Did you know that sharing domestic labor more equally leads to a better sex life? In this episode, we chat with Abby; mother of two and a content creator with a focus on motherhood and equalizing domestic labor. 

Abby candidly discusses her journey, from initially accepting imbalanced relational roles to eventually discovering the Fair Play method and redefining how work and family was balanced between her and her husband.

Abby also dives into how doing this work has led to a more fulfilling sex life, emphasizing the importance of open communication and setting expectations.

Through prioritizing her own needs, Abby proves that true love and partnership can thrive when rooted in mutual respect and understanding. May Abby's journey inspire you to redefine your own relationships and advocate for the love and respect you deserve.

Content warning: this episode includes sexual content, and minor explicit language.

Resources Mentioned:

- “Fair Play” by Eve Rodsky

- Connect with Abby on IG: @itsme_abbye

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The Not Tonight Podcast, hosted by Rachel Walker and Caitlin Nochajski, is a space for brave women to boldly share their stories of sexual transformation in marriage and long-term relationships.
Even if your partner is your best friend, do you sometimes feel stuck in your sex life? In this podcast, we hear from others about the raw, honest truth of long-term sexual relationships -why it's so common to feel disconnected, and what it take to build a sex life you love.
May these deeply authentic stories encourage and reassure you, because spoiler alert: when we tell the truth, we have better sex.