We are better together.

All you need to know about our Research Gatherings.

More than anything else, The Not Tonight Project is a research project.

Our passion lies in examining what’s out there, learning real women’s experiences, and helping interpret the data so real change is more accessible to everyone.

This means we spend a lot of time reading, listening, and watching. We deep-dive into the helpful stuff… and the unhelpful. We want to know what’s being taught - the good and the bad. All to help women be more discerning in the resources they pick up.

We also believe in the power of community. That we learn more deeply when truth is echoed off the faces and lives of others. I mean think about it - are you more likely to buy a book about sex at Barnes & Noble because it has a pretty cover, or because someone you know shared how impactful it was for them and their relationship?

We need each other’s wisdom and lived experience if we’re going to sort through life’s mysteries.

Therefore, we are thrilled to invite you into this research with us! We’d love for you to join us at our periodic Not Tonight Research Gatherings!

These completely free online events are for women who…

• Want a space to talk about the complexities of women’s sexuality in long-term relationships (whether you’re in one or not)

• Seek more wisdom in this area and wants to gather helpful resources and information

• Desire a safe place to share about their own experiences (primarily to be heard, not specifically for support or solutions)

These unique online gatherings are intended to embody what we’re all about here at the Not Tonight Project.

During our time together, we will…

• Share what we’re learning

• Invite you to share your own learnings

• Ask about your own experience (sharing is totally optional!)

• Create space for freeform sharing

This is a place for real conversation, real research, and real stories.

So, come join us! Be a part of the shift our world needs.

How to Join

Click below to register for our upcoming Research Gathering on March 1st at 10am Pacific Time / 1pm Eastern Time.

Note: registering does not require you to attend. Even if you’re just interested in our gathering, we recommend you registering!

Upon registering, you will receive an email with the information to join the meeting. Use the link in there to join the gathering.

If you can’t make it, we will miss you, but hope to catch you next time!

Thank you again for being here, and we hope to see you at a live event soon!

💗 Rachel & Caitlin

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