Welcome to The Not Tonight Project!
Welcome to The Not Tonight Project!
A little more about what we're doing here - and just as important - what we AREN'T doing.
Hi friend, and welcome to the Not Tonight Project!
We are so glad you’re here.
Welcome to what we like to call the “artist’s studio” of women’s sexuality, where we both learn and create a sexuality that feels uniquely our own.
We’re Rachel and Caitlin, and we are absolutely THRILLED that you found your way to this corner of the Internet.
Why? Because your enjoyment of sex (yes, you who are reading this right now) matters deeply to us.
That’s right - we want you having really great sex.
Not because we are weirdly obsessed with you or your sex life… but because we’re obsessed with the world being more full of people living in pleasure.
Because your pleasure really, really matters.
In fact, we believe that pleasure changes the world.
So, here’s a little more about how we’re working to create a more pleasure-filled world, and what you can expect if you choose to hang around here with us!
The Not Tonight Project has had several iterations in its two-year-long life (you can read more about them here), but as for what we’re doing right now? Check it out below!
Here’s what we ARE doing…
Creating media and content that helps inspire you toward growth and change in your long-term sexual relationship
Partnering with HELPFUL resources that spark sustainable positive change
Making sure you know what resources are UNHELPFUL and how to spot them
Sharing real women’s experiences and stories surrounding their own growth and change
Cultivating a virtual community of women reclaiming their sexuality as we grow and learn together
Keeping you in the loop as we develop this project beyond the walls of the Internet
Here’s what we AREN’T doing…
Creating our own products to help you grow in your sex life
Offering custom support for your relationship
Telling you what kind of sex to have
Yay, I’m subscribed! What do I do next?
So glad for you to join us! We can’t wait to engage with you. Here’s how to settle into this space:
Check out our About page to read more of our project history and get to know us a bit.
Introduce yourself in the comments of our “Get to Know You” post. Real change happens when we link arms!
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Thank you for being here!
Your pleasure matters. Your joy matters.
And while we won't tell you what kind of sex to have, we will tell you how to figure out what kind of sex you WANT.
Until next time!